when?
well…when was the last time you see your parents holding hands, embracing each other without feeling embarassed?or have you even see them doing it before?do they show affectionate towards each other in front of you? hurmm..there are two theories i suppose…
number one~~~set a perfect example on not to make out in the public
for youngsters
OR
number two~~~they’re together because of the children and commitment
and without the feeling at all.
of course it is obselete to show your mushiness in front of everyone.. but where’s the old romantic stroll in the park? the walk in the rain? the i~won’t~let~go~of~your~hand in the bus situation?
to be exact, i have never seen my parents, doing that particular activity anymore..and it’s amazing how parents can survive without the old courting situation…(unless your parents truly love one another and never tired of showing how loving they are towards one another).. most of the time they have to take care of the household, making commitments, putting them into action more than words. sacrifice for children.
then..some relationship couldn’t survive…the Big Bang happened.dad goes left, mum to the right. kids in between.. to be frank, i never have my mum’s hand on my left and at the same time my dad’s on the right. some couples just live through it..they survive without it. in my world, i see parents fighting, arguing on who’s the right one…but seldom hand in hand with anything.why won’t they reminisce about why they fell in love at the first place and work things out?
sometimes i wonder, what it’s like to have your parents greeting each other with love words..in front of their children…i suppose that’s what makes the family grow stronger without relationships breaking down…
i think it’s kind of fun to see parents show affectionate towards one another..it makes you want to know about their courtship…which is more direct without hanky panky at all….
to the children who have parents saying i love you meaningfully everyday, you guys are extremely lucky~~~spread the love around~~~!!
